265) The Doctrine of Original Awesomeness, Part 2  (Also, Day 33 -- Reason #33 to revolt against Predatory Capitalism)

265) The Doctrine of Original Awesomeness, Part 2 (Also, Day 33 -- Reason #33 to revolt against Predatory Capitalism)

Imagine how free, joyful, zestful, ALIVE people would feel if they grew up feeling USEFUL and LOVED by the people in their lives; if they grew up feeling they could contribute to their community, that they were respected, that even though they were still learning the skills of life, the adults around them HONOURED and VALUED them.  Imagine how good that would have felt, when you were a kid.

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167) Thanks Mom:  Intergenerational Wisdom, Part 2 -- Friendship and Community
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167) Thanks Mom: Intergenerational Wisdom, Part 2 -- Friendship and Community

I am coming to realize that this Tale of Aloneness was never actually true, and that what made me feel alone was simply Shame, not the reality of being disconnected from people.

When I look at my life from a different angle, then that same passage of time that seemed bereft of social connections was, in fact, RICH with relationships! 

Realizing this has given me a sense of almost something like awe…

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35)  Thoughts on Three TEDx Talks

35) Thoughts on Three TEDx Talks

I was trying to take people, right there, in that moment, on a journey, to engage minds and connect with hearts, directly, from me to you, unimpeded by theory and intellectualization. Rather than aiming for a rational appeal that could be communicated discursively, I wanted to engage people in a form of honest, authentic dialogue that transcended mere spoken language but could be conveyed through music, symbolism, story and nonverbal behaviour.  So I tossed theory completely out the window and went straight for the heart through poetry, song, story, and drumming.

And it worked

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