75) Dances with Wolves, Part 1:  Gas-lighters, Narcissists, and Spiritual Predators

75) Dances with Wolves, Part 1: Gas-lighters, Narcissists, and Spiritual Predators

I would like to explore some patterns of destructive behaviour that people far-too-often experience in their intimate relationships especially, and we’ll focus on three “types of people:”  gas-lighters, narcissists, and spiritual predators.  Although these are not exactly the same things, there’s a solid ‘family resemblance’ between them.  So let’s call them Wolves In Sheeps’ Clothing (WSCs).

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74) The Law of Attraction -- A Favourite Weapon of Abusers

74) The Law of Attraction -- A Favourite Weapon of Abusers

Many people believe in the Law of Attraction. Itʼs practically a truism for many (not all, thank god) personal-growth devotees, spiritual practitioners, New Agey-types, go-getters and motivational coaches. Itʼs a truism for the people who write books and sell inspirational videos about….the Law of Attraction. They make tons of sweet, sweet cash off it. Thatʼs because they BELIEVE in it!

See? It works!

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